Curriculum Learning for Safety Alignment

Abstract

Direct Preference Optimisation (DPO) is widely used for safety alignment in large language models. However, prior work shows it is brittle and exhibits poor out-of-distribution (OOD) generalisation. In this paper, we investigate whether Curriculum Learning can improve the robustness of DPO-based safety alignment. We propose Staged-Competence, a curriculum-based framework that organises preference data by difficulty, employs competence-based sampling, and progressively updates the reference model during training. Averaged across three model families, Staged-Competence reduces OOD harmful response rates by 16% and jailbreak attack success rates by 20%, while preserving general capabilities with near-zero over-refusal. We further show that Staged-Competence (1) matches baseline safety with only 75% of the training data and (2) yields better separation between safe and unsafe responses. Staged-Competence is agnostic to the policy optimisation loss and can extend to other DPO variants and alignment domains. Our code and data are available at https://github.com/Sandeep5500/curriculum-learning-for-safety.